Solo ladies travelling...are there more these days?
Submitted: Friday, May 25, 2007 at 22:26
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Footloose
Having met my first solo lady traveller in the bush in the 70's...she was a bush nurse and I was gobsmacked, I seem to see more ladies travelling by themselves in remote /semi remote areas, and I admire them for it. If I was a female there's no way I'd be able to do the same.
Not all are
young , many are as old as I and older. Met a lady who'd taken a small motorhome out to Big Red, didn't try to get up it but I thought she was game to travel the
Birdsville track and north to the Gulf. Not bad as she was in her 70's.
Are there more solo lady travellers these days, or is it just my perception ?
How do they change tyres? I have enough trouble doing that. Do they encounter gender discrimination at all ? What's their biggest hassle? Security, or am I just an outdated fossil as usual ?
I know someone is going tell me that this post is discriminatory and they're right. But I'm interested.
Reply By: Sand Man (SA) - Friday, May 25, 2007 at 22:55
Friday, May 25, 2007 at 22:55
"How do they change tyres?"
Why, they just bat their eyelashes Footy. Maybe pout a little.
Us mere males fall over ourselves to help a damsel in distress.
Some females have served their apprenticeship as grease monkeys and know more about vehicles than you or I:-))
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Follow Up By: Footloose - Friday, May 25, 2007 at 23:01
Friday, May 25, 2007 at 23:01
Perhaps...but I'm lead to believe that although superior in some ways, their upper body strength isn't as great. Not in the women in my life, anyway
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Reply By: Member - Au-2 - Friday, May 25, 2007 at 23:23
Friday, May 25, 2007 at 23:23
We met an elderly woman last year, travelling in a Brits style van. She asked if she could
camp near us and we said yes, realising that she probably did this everywhere as a precaution. She did have a huge dog though, which would frighten off the most determined mugger. She took him to the amenities with her, everytime. The most annoying thing we found, was the sliding van door on her trips to the loo in the middle of the night, it never closed on the first slam. Damn slam x 3, going and coming!
OzeSheila.
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Follow Up By: Footloose - Friday, May 25, 2007 at 23:31
Friday, May 25, 2007 at 23:31
If I were female it would take more than a big dog to get me to go bush. Although I have noticed that the younger ones usually have one when they are solo.
I wonder if it were the same lady ? She did say that she was going to be on the road for a long time. We met her in
Boulia, where she was sweeping the dirt out of her van in the caravan park.
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Follow Up By: Member - Au-2 - Friday, May 25, 2007 at 23:44
Friday, May 25, 2007 at 23:44
I dunno, this event happened in
Clermont last year, at Theresa Ck
Dam,
camping area. Actually, the teenagers who rocked up in the afternoon and set up
camp 20 ft away from us, annoyed us the most. They set up an old noisy generator, plugged in a boom box, then played their version of music until the early hours. Sheesh! I suppose you have to expect that sort of thing these days.
OzeSheila
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Follow Up By: Footloose - Friday, May 25, 2007 at 23:53
Friday, May 25, 2007 at 23:53
I know the feeling. I was camped on
Coopers Creek by myself one night, and some bikers with a ute rocked in and set up
camp, they had been to the
Birdsville races. Generator, lights , boom box,booze, action. The guys and girls were dancing on the back of the truck....amongst other things. I was still trying to sleep at 2am, but wasn't game enough to ask em to tone it down.
I sure know how to pick camping spots LOL
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Reply By: Member - Andrew (QLD) - Saturday, May 26, 2007 at 07:51
Saturday, May 26, 2007 at 07:51
I'd say outdated fossil :-)
I know of numerous women who travel alone throughtout Australia and they seem to have no trouble. It all comes down to what others have mentioned in previous posts "being prepared".
My mother travelling extensively by herself for many years and never had a problem. Her best friend also travelled alone, albeit with 2 adult disabled sibilings. Another women friend is completely deaf (which may make it more difficult to communicate with others when travelling) however she has been travelling for some time now, and has found that it is, if nothing else, a good conversation starter.
There is no reason a women can't travel, even by herself. Many i have met are better prepared than many others, myself included, when travelling.
Good on them i say :-)
Andrew
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Follow Up By: Footloose - Saturday, May 26, 2007 at 15:33
Saturday, May 26, 2007 at 15:33
"I'd say outdated fossil :-) "....you don't have to agree with everything I post :-))
Yes, I admire them, for if I were a woman I wouldn't go past the town lights.
Lets have a look at some of the issues from an (admittedly) male perspective.
1. Security
2. Cleanliness...some are fussy...
3.
Toilet needs can be different to males
4 Lack of upper body strength in some...tyre changing etc.
5 Undesireable attention...see 1.
And that's just a start.
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Reply By: Member - Barry M (NSW) - Saturday, May 26, 2007 at 08:45
Saturday, May 26, 2007 at 08:45
Preparation...good point.. How do they change tyres? Do you back the wheelnuts
off after the rattle gun so your lady has a chance of changeing a tyre should she be
unable to get assistance. Whist speaking to a lone lady traveller in a small motorhome at
Barkly Homestead recently, I was pleased to hear that she couldnt
even roll up her awning without offers of help & had no bad experiences on the
road. Reinforces my belief that fellow travellers are your asset not vice versa.
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Follow Up By: Footloose - Saturday, May 26, 2007 at 15:27
Saturday, May 26, 2007 at 15:27
Met a couple of nurses at
Mataranka years ago. Wandered over to
check out their vehicle layout..very spiffy. They had been all over the top end. They were about five foot tall and as wide as a pencil, without any noticeable bulging bicepts. I asked them how they changed tyres. They rekkoned they hadn't needed to, and their dad always asked them the same question but it didnt faze them. Ahhh...youth.
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Reply By: Gob & Denny - Saturday, May 26, 2007 at 09:56
Saturday, May 26, 2007 at 09:56
goodday footy
a couple of years ago we at noulangie
rock when an elderly lady (late 70,s early 80's ) pedalled up vey thin very fit not much on the tent and a few bits had ridden from
MELBOURNE was having alook around she was going to
camp at 1 of the falls but we had to tell her they were closed as the rangers were trying to trap a croc very blarsey she said ah
well back to the side of the road?????
steve
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Follow Up By: Footloose - Saturday, May 26, 2007 at 10:06
Saturday, May 26, 2007 at 10:06
Amazing !
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Reply By: madfisher - Saturday, May 26, 2007 at 15:44
Saturday, May 26, 2007 at 15:44
Hi Footy,
My wife and son who was 8 at the time decided to walk into the colo
gorge a few years back. They did bot even do down a track but the t3 route I think it was called.
wife would have got bushed on way out but my little fellow pionted out where she had taken a wrong turn . She is an experienced bush walker. Can not get her to drive the boat though strange
Cheers Pete
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Reply By: Member - Linda M (VIC) - Sunday, May 27, 2007 at 18:41
Sunday, May 27, 2007 at 18:41
Its good to raise this stuff, Footloose. Women have been travelling around on thier own for years. As you know, they also climb everest, run marathons, bear children. None of it's easy of course. As for changing tyres, they probably do it the same way as I do-jack up the car, remove the one with the gash in the sidewall and relace it with the good one. Its true that most of us don't have the same upper body strength as men and it is scary travelling in remote areas. Our biggest hassle? The Ugly Australian. Fortunately the vast majority of men I've met on my travels are terrific- friendly, helpful, and just wanting to enjoy the great outdoors as I do. Others, sadly, are angry, dangerous, have a chip on their shoulder and lack control. They are the ones that impede on not only the right of women but of other men to travel around freely and without fear.
I hope we're all still enjoying our travels
well past our 70's, regardless of gender or whether we are single, married or whatever.
Linda
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Follow Up By: Footloose - Sunday, May 27, 2007 at 18:57
Sunday, May 27, 2007 at 18:57
Thanks for that Linda. I certainly hope you're travelling for a long time yet.
A long time ago I was chatting to a
young woman who worked in the bush. The stories that she told me were scary and unsavoury, to say the least.
But no doubt things have changed...at least I hope so.
My post wasn't to denegrate anyone, male or female.
As I once wrote, if you ignore women then you ignore about half of the human race to your peril.
As for the ugly Australians, I was once told by a female that she didnt want tro be as good as a bloke. "Why would I want to sink that low ?" she asked.
Hmmmmm......Not all ugly Australians are males, methinks :)))
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Follow Up By: Footloose - Sunday, May 27, 2007 at 19:04
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Also, did you know that our early women settlers, when they rode alone, had more weapons than the American outlaws ? Talk about giving a bloke a hard time! :))))))
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