Sunday, Apr 21, 2024 at 15:33
Allan, I recognised your request , but my answer in the context of this thread was to a wider ‘audience than just yourself. This is not about you or me, It is about the difficulty in seeking compromise when different ‘languages ‘ ( culture) involved.
I deliberately avoided answering your question (hence my opening statement about doubting my response would be what you sought from me.
My reason is that to do so would only serve to draw more argument & I am not seeking to argue. There has been far too much of that for far too long & it hasn’t helped a bit.
What we need to do is something we haven’t done before, something for which there is no charted path or instruction book on how to do it & to expect me in a
forum post to come up with a solution is , at least as I interpret it somewhat disingenuous & an invitation only for me to provide a target to be further shot at. I cannot & will not do that. If that was not your intent I apologise, but I still wont attempt to provide what you asked for.
What I will do is suggest, as I have, that for any way forward there are certain things which need to be in place before we can begin exploring that path to a solution together. Those foundations are respect & trust. Without them there is no way forward … at all.
As I see it what we rejected when we voted NO was an opportunity to do things differently in an attempt to establish those foundations. It was a vote which said “We don’t trust’. I think that for many the process leading up to the vote was marred by deliberate politicalisation & disinformation, leading many to vote along political lines. The real possibilities of building some useful foundations for a way forward were all but drowned out in the noise. Even now mention the referendum & the response is more noise.
Much of what has been written by others in this thread echoes precisely that. Distrust. I’m sure many folks on both the white & black side of the fence have what they consider good reason not to trust those over the fence. My point is simply that that is not helpful & we need to find a way past that. The only way to do that is to give some ground, to take a risk, to show good faith ….. and perhaps some vulnerability. Not an easy ask of the tough guys eh?
I was & am incredibly disappointed that Trump style campaigning was so effective, & see the opportunity we rejected as detrimental to every Australian.
I am sorry if you felt my intent was to lecture, it wasn’t. I try to write with integrity about the process as I see it here. Not easy when I am responding to what feels like negativity. I do my best with words, but obviously if you felt lectured my best was not good enough.
I did not suggest, that ‘ Wholesale right -giving policies’ were what I called sharing & respect.
I juxtaposed the two things to demonstrate the huge difference in language that is used when these issues are discussed which can make presumed understanding incorrect. Your response demonstrates that
well.
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