Saturday, Jan 29, 2011 at 14:58
Thanks to everyone who has, so far, responded - your courtesy and time is appreciated. Further replies are most welcome.
Some interesting comments have been made and a few new lines of thought opened up to me; I expected the thrust of the replies to be on the negative side and it's heartening to observe the exact opposite :)
I've been thinking a little more too, of course. It *is* a huge step perhaps not irrevocable but close to it. I'll have to dispense with the accumulated "junk" of over half a life time and all the things one collects as children grow and a family develops. No grandchildren yet so what does one do with the big box of Lego, the wooden sword we made for the school play, the little box of electronics I made for my eldest upon which he could play a tune before the phrase "
home computer" was coined? The answer is... they have to go - and it's that walking away from so much of one's past life which makes this such a big step.
Also there is the fact that I'll have no *real*
home, no bolt-hole, no security. I did this once before some years ago when moving to a new country and it came as quite a shock to me when I arrived at the airport of the country I was leaving and realised I had no keys! I didn't need them, the house had been sold, the car had been sold - for the first time since I could remember, from having a key to unlock my bicycle, I had no keys - it was an odd feeling :)
Let's run through a few of the points raised:
A few people commented upon buying some land:
My theory was that if something unexpected happens, serious illness, change of heart, whatever (unexpected!?), then I would have somewhere to go for a few months. It would take a council at least that length of time to go through the process of obtaining an injunction to prevent me living there. Additionally, I would have an option of putting a proper house on that land at some stage so I would keep a small foot in the property market. I need to give that more thought.
Daza and Fab's comments: Yep, I agree and it's one of my concerns but then I'm a bit of a picky bastard and would not wish to live somewhere I didn't like. Actually it raises the whole "old age" thing - my current feeling is that there is no point in going on for ever and when life becomes simply a desire to survive then it's probably time to go - whether I'll feel the same way in 20 years... who knows?
Palmy (and others) mentioned buying a rental property:
The last thing I want is a house somewhere far away which I have to rely upon others to organise; *however* the DoD rental sounds very interesting, I'll look into it - thanks Palmy.
Joe n Mel:
A long time since I was in
Doomadgee - it reminded me of driving into a village in central Africa - the children were smiling a lot, I hope they still are :) I think you misunderstood my intention with the land - hopefully the above explains. It's not injury which concerns me (I have more comms than NASA :) but more a long term illness - who knows? I have an inkling you may run the store up there? If I make it back there I'll buy you a beer.
Michael J:
Approval? Noooo :) The last time I sought approval was when I played my parents-in-law at the game of who can make the most money - I won :) I also discovered that money is not the road to finding contentment in life. I like your idea of the big shed, all manner of sins could be hidden by such...?
Wendys:
Yep the caravan park alternative for a long term issue is a good one and has the advantage one could change parks if necessary.
Warren h:
Thanks for that - valuable input from someone who has taken this direction.
Thanks again to *all* who responded, if I didn't mention you above it was simply because I felt your comment was complete and didn't need further input - it was not a slight.
The process continues.... :)
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